My kid doesn’t have a lot of respect for myself and others these afternoons

Having been a single father for many years now, it hasn’t been straight-forward raising our kid. Her mother died in a brutal car accident and that’s something that makes us both irritated. Well, lately she has been getting into this new phase. Both of us used to talk more often and things seemed to be alright, however now she just wants to spend most of her time either alone in her room or with her friends. Both of us don’t hang out anymore and it kind of sucks. The other afternoon when I tried to ask him if she could change the air filter to the Heating and Air Conditioning system, she said she would get to it. She never did though and when I asked him about it again she said, “Don’t have a cow man!” I hadn’t heard anybody say that for a long time and I was thinking that it sounded adore something from the simpsons. I was subscribed to Disney Plus and I realized that she was enjoying the simpsons as all the seasons are on there. It was cool that we could both relate to some degree because apparently, we both liked that show. Still when she refused to change the air filter, I told him she had to do something around the cabin and she needed to wipe her room. She kept giving myself and others a strenuous time and I didn’t assume what to do. I ended up changing the air filter to the Heating and Air Conditioning on our own and I just kept up with everything. I mostly assume lost without our spouse being here to help, she typically knew what to do. I’m afraid our child has lost all respect for me, despite the fact that I hope things don’t get worse.