I have a buddy who is a genuinely nice guy, but she likes to brag about all the things she does.
I guess in a way, it kind of negates the wonderful deeds she does when she is telling everybody around all the wonderful she has done and makes it sound like people couldn’t get by without him.
She is an HVAC serviceman and she is a very talented a single. She has helped out most of her friends and family when it comes to working on our HVAC systems and installing particular HVAC components. She helped myself and others out this past Spring by getting myself and others a cooling plan tune-up and she even cleaned out my ductwork system. I was going to pay him for her services, but she insisted that I owed him nothing, of course later on she was bragging to everybody how she helped myself and others out when I was struggling financially. The thing is, I wasn’t struggling financially and I had to set the record straight to my buddies. It’s not so awful that she brags I guess, although I don’t like it when she makes stuff up, it makes myself and others look bad. I was ready to pay him full price for her services and if she provided a discount, that would have been cool. I didn’t expect for him to do everything for free! It was nice at the time although I didn’t like the way it made myself and others guess when she said I was struggling financially. Other buddies of mine have felt the same way when she brags about helping. I assume the two of us all might have to have an intervention with our HVAC buddy.