My kid and I had sort of a falling out when she moved out on her own.
I told him she could stay at cabin for as long as she needed and she could focus on her studies in university. She said she didn’t need myself and others anymore though and she still blamed myself and others for her mother passing away. I couldn’t argue with him, I felt adore I was responsible. That evening when she died haunts myself and others every single afternoon. It was a dark and stormy evening and we were driving to the store for something. I don’t even remember what we were going to get however the car hydroplaned and we made the decision to go into the other lane and almost slammed into another car. Instead I swerved off the road and we crashed into a tree. Tragically, our spouse did not survive the accident and it wasn’t straight-forward telling our kid about what happened. She holds that against myself and others and there’s nothing I can do to change anything. Still, I tried to give him stuff she might need for university. I gave him a portable Heating and Air Conditioning unit and a UV air purification system. I figured she could typically be comfy with the perfect temperature control settings and the air quality in her place would typically be nice. She took the gifts but she said it wasn’t going to improve anything between us. She at least comes to visit every so often now and she has been getting good marks in university. She only asked myself and others for a single thing and that was to help him cover the cost for an Heating and Air Conditioning service at her residence, which didn’t cost too much money. I hope a single of these afternoons she will forgive me, however until then I will just continue to be the best father I can be.