He at least comes to visit every so often now and he has been getting wonderful marks in school
My child and I had sort of a falling out when he moved out on his own. I told him he could stay at modern home for as long as he needed and he could focus on his studies in college. He said he didn’t need myself and others anymore though and he still blamed myself and others for his mother passing away. I couldn’t argue with him, I felt savor I was responsible. That evening when she died haunts myself and others every single day. It was a dark and stormy evening and all of us were driving to the store for something. I don’t even remember what all of us were going to get but the automobile hydroplaned and all of us opted to go into the other lane and almost slammed into another car. Instead I swerved off the road and all of us crashed into a tree. Tragically, our wife did not survive the accident and it wasn’t straight-forward telling our child about what happened. He holds that against myself and others and there’s nothing I can do to change anything. Still, I tried to supply him stuff he might need for college. I provided him a portable Heating, Ventilation, and A/C component and a UV air cleaner. I figured he could constantly be comfy with the perfect temperature control settings and the air quality in his place would constantly be nice. He took the gifts although he said it wasn’t going to improve anything between us. He at least comes to visit every so often now and he has been getting wonderful marks in school. He only asked myself and others for a single thing and that was to help him cover the cost for an Heating, Ventilation, and A/C service at his residence, which didn’t cost too much money. I hope a single of these afternoons he will forgive me, but until after that all of us will just continue to be the best father I can be.